My husband and I just got into a major arguement about parenting. he thinks I'm lying when I say I'm trying. Its so frustrating. What happens is our ADHD child, doesn't do things the first time he is asked so I did the perscribed 3 times, or so I thought, and my hubby says I did it a lot more.
Then it turned into a free for all. I repeat myself all the time and I lie when I say I don't. I'm the reason our son is doing poorly. I ask too many questions. Spout out too many ideas. *sigh*
I analyze. Its what I do at work, its what I do naturally...that's why I'm good at my job! :( I don't try to do these things. The world to me is multifaceted & wonderful, but I think its pretty flat to my hubby. He says I speak Chinese to him.
I have 3 university degrees, so I'm not stupid by any mark, but I def. struggle at remembering stuff like how many times did I ask something......
The more I learn about ADHD, the more I think it might be a part of my problem. But, I've only very been aware of the strengths...now I'm looking at all the negatives and feeling quite badly about who I am. I'm ashamed to go to the doctor and ask his opinion....and I'm sure my hubby would think it another excuse or lie. :(
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