my boyfriend and i started dating bout two months ago. there are many things bout him that are great but i noticed hes much different than other people. he talks alot, he doesnt seem to pay very good attention to what i say, he interrupts, he changes subject quickly. sometimes he just seems like he doesnt care bout what i have to say. he insists that he does. i just found out he prob has add/adhd. how do i learn to deal this behavior to look past and enjoy him for who he is without getting frustrated? i really love him but his add/adhd makes it hard for me sometimes.
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Hi Lovergirl...
I can understand how you can feel pressurized about the ADD/ADHD issue of your boyfriends.
Check out this link:
http://psychcentral.com/disorders/sx1.htm
It is also possible that some of these behaviors could be learned? Could you try to help him pay attention, calm down a little?
I suppose he is on medications?
http://psychcentral.com/disorders/adhd/adhd_more_treatment.htm
Hope these links help...
Best,
Clyde
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