I left my wife after 12 years. I wasn't having an affair but I moved in with an ex. 4 months later I left her to move back with my wife. We are in marriage counseling, 7 months. It isn't working for me. We are too different. I want to leave but I feel nauseous when I think about it. I'm so unhappy but it's a debilitating feeling I can't overcome.
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Hi there Lothius!
Do you feel that it is so much the idea that you don't want to be married to the wife, or do you feel it may be a different thing?
If you really think you need to leave, then you may want to do so.
It could be rough on you both at first, but you shouldnt be unhappy in your life, either...
Best,
Clyde