Avatar Posted by addadd 233 days ago (Question)
I have a girlfriend i have been dating online. Im so scared to be with her and actually meet her because im afraid she'll leave. I have beenfacing fear of abandonment since my mother passed away when i was younger. I feel that everyone i love and become close to will eventually die and leave me. I am so scared. I feel that im ready to be with her because i love her so much and want to start life with her. I took mediction got professional help nothing works. I go to the place but end up leaving cuz i get thoughts of her leaving me like most people i loved. I was also abused as a child and my father abandoned me too when i was younger. I just dont know what to do because i love her. What should i do to overcome this fear?


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Written by bellacutie 233 days ago - Show / Hide this answer Rating: -1 | Rate Answer: + -

Written by Clyde 220 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

See what bella said. I too believe it to be attachment disorder.

You have to decide you want to stop living like this and make a step forward.

Best,

Clyde


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