Nasty inbred white trash moved next to my mother, with their nasty habits.For morons that say they are buying the property they show no signs of cleaning up the house or property although they wife and kid are home all day. The wife is a habitual lier, the son a friggin retard and the husband looks and acts like a loser. They don't take care of the property which affects our house, I trapped all the cats the lying bitch said were'nt hers and were crapping, pissing and vomiting in our yard. I contacted code and city and they are worthless bastards. I can only hope they move on to be a pain in someone elsses but. Everytime I go by the fat idiot kid gives me this evil eye deal. Nobody seems to be able to get theses nasty losers in line. it's coming down to a all out fight with any or all of them and I hope I hurtem bad. Talking civilized to these people doesn't work, kept trying in the begining and all they do is lie about everything and think it's funny. Ask politly to keep their dogs restrained instead of running lose crapping everywhere and destroying trash cans, same thing with cats nothing but lies, I think it's time to take things into my own hands...What choice do I have????


Answers


bella
869 days ago
Sorry you're so mad. You said they're buying the property - so do they own or rent the property? If they rent, the landlord could be contacted. There are laws against dogs running loose and not keeping property reasonably clean - all you can do is call local officials. Also recommend not putting garbage out until the night before and using containers with a snap lid. In the meantime try to calm down because its not healthy to be this mad and you don't want to do any illegal. Do what you can through your city bylaws and then let it go.



litfuse
869 days ago
thats one of my biggest problems is letting it go...



bella
869 days ago
Do you live with your mom? There's only so much we can do and sometimes its easier to let things go than fight. Doesn't mean you shouldn't complain. Do you see all this happening with the garbage or are you assuming it their animals making messes? Does your mom get you going by complaining to you? If yes, try not to let her fire you up. This also helps - ask yourself will this matter in 10 yrs?



litfuse
869 days ago
No my mother doesn't complain, she lets things go. It pisses me of when I extend an olive branch and get lied to at every turn. Government can only do so much and I have my own house about 45 miles away. It burns me up after 35yrs in this house and rebuilding after Katrina. Going through all that suffering getting evrything fixed up better than new to have to live next to no class losers that like to live in filth. Now that her house was raised maybe a flood will float these turds out of here.They're drifters that don't care how they live anyway...



Chemar
869 days ago
I realize you are mad but honestly, if you read your own post and hear what you sound like....are you not being horribly judgmental and using IMO disgusting slurs against these people? Nomatter what you may think of them, it does not justify your reaction. Nobody is worthless. And you have no idea what the circumstances in those people's lives are.

I also want to caution you about cruelty to animals...if you harm any of their dogs or cats you will be breaking the law.



litfuse
869 days ago
If anything iv'e tried to help these animals but animal control and spca said unless there are open sores on the animals there is nothing they can do. Their animals are in poor shape and you can hear them whine when they scratch them selves. if anything i'm an animal lover. the only attention these animals get is fed. my dogs are very well cared for, by anyones standards. and your right i am being judgemental but why should i have to bear the burden of what makes them not care for anything around them. I trapped the cats they where feeding and not caring for and gave them to the animal shelter, so they could be adopted and cared for properly. the dogs are almost covered in mainge. I had a chow chow at my mothers house for 5 yrs after Katrina and had no flea problems period. their first summer here my smaller dog rat terrier went out for ten minutes and was covered with fleas during a visit...



Chemar
868 days ago
sadly, unless the animal shelter has a "no-kill" policy, those cats would likely be euthanized :(

It really concerned me to read the language you used to describe these neighbors. I know what it is like to have frustrations with neighbors, but I sensed more than that in how your wrote. I am not sure if you have problems with anger management, but it sounds like that may be an issue. But also referring to these neighbors with the choice of words you used is very revealing of your own attitude toward other people, as irritating as they may be. My personal advice would be to take a deep breath and not allow this to bring you this high level of stress. It really is not worth it to your own health. In life we sometimes have to accept things we cannot change. And when we feel we can bring change, doing it in a level headed manner often brings a lot faster and better results than just rushing in mad all the time.



litfuse
868 days ago
I did introduce my self and told them that I was happy to see people finally move in and take care of the place real nice conversation. She said she rescued animals home schooled her son and the husband worked. When cats and kittens started crawling under the fence and dogs running loose. I asked her if she could do something about the cats, she lied and said they were'nt hers and didn't know where they came from. I took pictures of the loose dogs and their condition the son saw me with the camera I gave him a thumbs up next thing this woman is screaming that I took pictures of her son. After the animals shelter visits, 2 weeks later the cops show up and say I was taking pics of her son. I told him the facts and he said if she causes more trouble call me. They are not buying or maintaining the house. Everything that comes out their mouths is a lie.I approached in a civil manner, this is what I got...



bella
868 days ago
Hi again - does this lady rent this house and can you speak to the landlord? I don't know the laws where you live, but doesn't she need a license to run an animal shelter?? Its too bad the animal control isn't doing their job. We have a dog catcher in my area, so one time I kept seeing this neighbors dog escaping, so called them - they came and put the dog in the local shelter.. I tried returning the dog 2 times but he kept getting out of their yard. One time he ran across the snowy road while I was driving and I almost accidentally hit him.

I know this kind of neighbor problem can be frustrating, but agree its best not to let the anger get the best of you - not good for your health or in solving the problem. Try calling the police and tell them you're frustrated with the animals running lose and the animal control not enforcing the laws.



litfuse
868 days ago
They have been keeping the dogs in because I did keep animal control informed.Like I said the laws and ordinances are too weak for anything more to be done.The neighborhood association and councilman have done all they can(loop holes) The cats have not returned because they got the message when the cats started to disapear, one black one that seemed to be their actual pet. I watch them let the out in the evening he would jump the fence do his buisiness in my mothers yard jump back over the fence wait on the hood of their car then go back inside. It's everytime I go to visit my mother or do work on her house the kid(17-18) is constantly giving me this stare down lookin for a fight. Well I'm going sunday morn to bring some vegtables I grew in my garden, if they want it they're going to get it. I'm not going to avoid visiting my mother just because these people have no class and live like pigs.



bella
868 days ago
Sure you shouldn't stop visiting your mom and chances are they won't stay there long, with all this pressure. Try not to worry about the 17 yr old - he probably sees things from his mom's viewpoint. If I were you, keep doing everything the legal way. You don't want to lose your temper and get arrested.

Regarding the cat pooping in your mom's yard - TBH cats roam around my property but they're outdoor, not feral cats and I don't mind if they do their duty in my yard - very hard to control that unless there's too many and feral(wild). I do mind big loads from dogs. Don't participate in the stare downs - its more important to be happy, than right all the time. We can't control people beyond the law, so try to enjoy the visit with your mom, rather than feeling upset by them. Honestly you risk having a heart attack getting this worked up. Live in the moment rather than anticipating bad deeds by those neighbors. Some people also like bothering others so don't play into their hands - not saying they're doing this for sure, but another reason to avoid them.



litfuse
868 days ago
I appreciate the advise, I am trying but with PTSD,Depression and severe sleep apnea it has been difficult.



bella
868 days ago
Now that you mention you have PTSD and depression - this is probably triggering you badly. Do you have a therapist and are you on medication?? You should try slow deep belly breathing - this helps a little. All we have in life is this moment - try to relax.



litfuse
868 days ago
I did have one but when I could no longer work due too physical limitations, back,neck and rt shoulder(not being treated). I lost my insurance I'm waiting for disability to be approved. The only place I can go for free is downtown New Orleans and I don't need the stress I want nothing too do with the city.I'm waiting to see if I can get long term disability from my former employer, I have a lawyer. I would put the doctors name but I never ask if I could give his name hear.



litfuse
867 days ago
New development woman next door arrested for domestic violence against her daughter in law and child. But the real kicker is the girl she assaulted came her too call the police and she said the woman was also dealing drugs. Probably oxcycontin since she mentioned she had a back injury. I sent an e-mail to the cops last year about suspected drug dealing and now it's confirmed and I have just sent another e-mail the the sheriff again. Hopefully the whole deal will be exposed and they'll be gone for good. Hopefully the poor kid about five can put all this drama behind him, because he had to watch his mother be arrested. This kid souldn't be around this in his formative years, tramatic things like this tend to stick with a kid for a long time( give you one guess how I know, and no my parents have never been arrested for anything)Good thing I was bringing some vegtables from my garden I would have missed it all...



bella
866 days ago
That's an interesting development and good news for you - meaning I doubt they'll stay there for long. Since there's kids involved, I hope their parents will be more responsible and provide a better life for them. If they don't have money - they really shouldn't have pets. I hope your mother will have more peace soon and you can put this all to rest.



MLM103169
860 days ago
Wow! Calling a child a "retard"? Calling ANYONE a "retard"?! Not only do you have some serious anger issues, but as bad as the neighbors sound...I'm not sure who would be worse to deal with, them or you. Your ignorance is astounding. I am embarrassed for you. You are no better than the individuals you're ATTEMPTING to trash. Seek some anger management and try having some couth about yourself. Your post made you look like "trash", regardless of color.