Avatar Posted by Iwishihadagun 73 days ago (Question)
Ok all I realy want to do is get some clarification about this inccident. While over at my friends house he was talking to his girl friend on speaker phone and so he's talking to her and all, he says to her whose that, and she says one of my freinds. So Im just sitting there half with it and then his girl freind starts of about her freind says she's twelve and all. There I am still zoning off and then I her the most akward question in my life his gf says my friend was just wandering about your friend. I ammedatly come too and start listing, apperantly his gf's freind is l12 and all and I'm sitting not trying to be ass. And so now ( I don't how this happens but I'm push over so) iv got to go with my friend and his girl friend and meet this chick. So know iv got to make an ass of my self so could someone tell me how to handle this with out being dumb, ignorent, or an idiot.


P.S.
I'm 15


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Written by Chemar 73 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

Hi

not really sure how to answer as I am struggling to understand what you are asking??

If you dont want to go...just say sorry but no! Otherwise, just be yourself and enjoy making a new friend :)

Written by bellacutie 73 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

I'm also a little confused, especially your last sentence "so I've got to make an ass of myself, so could someone tell me how to handle this without being dumb, ignorant or an idiot. Are you feeling awkward and embarassed because you don't want to meet a girl who's 12 when you're 15? Or are you asking how to behave meeting a girl? It sounds like you don't want to go - so just be honest and say that. I wouldn't want my 12 yr old daughter meeting up with boys anyway. Please clarify your question -thanks.

Written by babykakes 73 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

Do everyone a favor including yourself and don't go. It sounds like you feel you were coerced into this so it won't be good for anyone. If you do go just be pleasant because in the end you will look the way you feel.

Written by Iwishihadagun 72 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

Thanks and to clerify I didn't want to meet some 12 year old thats into me that's just rong and akward.

Written by Chemar 72 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

Hi and thanks for clarifying....in that case you should just say you are not going! Just tell your friend the truth, that you have no interest in meeting this girl and that it would make you feel uncomfortable to be there.

Written by bellacutie 72 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

Then be honest and say I don't want to get railroaded into going. One of the best things in life you can learn to do is say "NO" - even if it means saying no to a friend.

Written by Iwishihadagun 71 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

Thanks but I didn't say no I just went there and told the truth. I only went also because I needed a quick ride home.

Written by Clyde 50 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

If you dont wanna go, dont do it. You dont want to be uncomfortable the rest of your life, do you?

Best,

Clyde


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