My fiance who I have been w/for 6 years broke up w/me suddenly. We have had a volatile relationship due to his untreated bipolar. He has extreme mood swings and has always taken his moods out on me. I still love and miss him so much and it's been 2 months. He is now calling me again and told me he regrets breaking up. I don't know what to do because he caused me so much pain but I'd do anything to be back with him if I thought he'd change. He was hospitalized about 10 years ago w/bipolar but has functioned w/out meds since-if you'd call it function. He was very emotionally abusive towards me and this caused me to walk on eggshells and be depressed, unhappy frequently. I often thought of leaving him but never had the courage due to his emotional hold over me. I'm very confused and missing him so much but not sure why...I've spend the majority of my twenties with this guy, I begged him not to do this to us and to try to work it out, but to no avail. I am actually a beautiful girl who alot of guys like which makes my situation even crazier..I am hooked on this guy and don't know why. Do you think it's worth a shot to try to convince him to get on meds and see where this goes or just cut my losses and try again to move on.
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yeah like he said sometimes things happen for a reason and it sounds like ur relationship wasnt the greatest b4 it might be time to leave this one in the past move on it aint going to be easy trust me it never is i wish you the best of luck stay strong but i would sugest not going back to what once was
Anything is worth a shot...yet, its not so much me you have to make want to do this.
If you still want to do it, do it, but please remember what it was like before. You may not want to do it again.
Best,
Clyde