Avatar Posted by pprincess 214 days ago (Question)
i have jelous rages that are severe and cannot control they bring relationships to the point where we can not even leave the house without me getting jelouse


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Written by Edahn 213 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

When you feel it coming on, try talk to yourself and giving yourself good advice that will help you stay calm and objective.

Written by bellacutie 213 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

Hi,

it's seems like you've noticed a pattern of jealousy with other relationships before. Why do you think you have these feelings. Is it rooted some where in your childhood? Was your mom/dad jealous or had trust issues. Jealousy is very destructive to relationships. Try to find out where these feelings are rooted and try the tip Edahn gave you.

Written by Francesca 213 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

This sounds like a confidence issue to me. It would seem that you probably date a lot of people you believe could find someone better and therefore probably distrust their commitment to you. I think it is important to look at why these people are interested in you in the first place. They obviously saw something in you that they were attracted to. You need to have a strong self confidence in order to even begin engaging trust in others. Otherwise these people you date can reassure you all they want but it wont matter because you wont believe it for yourself.

Try making out a list of all the great things that you uniquely offer a relationship. Then remember these things as you start to feel yourself losing control. Remind yourself that you valuable to your significant other.

Once you have established a clear picture of your value, try to see from your significant others perspective a little. What do they personally see in you. Why would they want to be with you.

And last but not least don't be afraid to let negative relationships go if you don't feel you are seen for all you have to offer. There is always a better relationship out there with someone who can appreciate whatever it is about you that ends up on your list.

Written by Clyde 211 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

Does this happen with every person or just certain persons in the relationship?

Why do you feel jealous? Are the reasons common for every single person, or are they different?

Best,

Clyde


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