Avatar Posted by gracy5454 30 days ago (Question)
Why would my common-law hubby stop taking his meds just because I caught him in a lie. What would be his motive behind this. He is also being extremely mean to me.
Am I not allowed to be told the truth . Or is this this a set up for a explosion and a audience for himself.
I was praising him for taking his meds and he was doing
so well. He has a crush on my oldest daughter and he was to meet her and I found out .


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Written by bellacutie 29 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

Sounds like he trying to get you to feel sorry for him. If he has a crush on your daughter - this sounds like a messed up relationship. I think he's manipulating you.

Written by Clyde 29 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

Whoa. This is indeed a bit off the chartish.

He seems to be not taking the meds in a childish way to get back at you.

Also, if he does have a crush on your oldest daughter (NO MATTER THE AGE) and professes it to, that is a recipe for disaster.

Get out of there now.

Best,

Clyde

Written by Fpsy 28 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

Hi gracy,

there is not a lot of positive stuff going on with your partner. He is mean to you, he doesn't take his medication, and he is sexually attracted to your eldest daughter.

Things aren't going to get any better, they are only going to get worse. Get yourself into a position where you can leave him, where you can be confident in yourself, independent and make better choices about what partner you set yourself up with.


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