I'm almost 13, I have a 10 year old younger brother. My dad treats him way better than me. My dad used to be a playboy when he was young, so of course he wants my brother too. He wants my brother to have sex with different girls everynight, use them, and break their hearts. And with me he's way overprotective, he thinks im way too young and doesnt want me to have sex until I am married and cant have a boyfriend until I'm 18. My brother sort of has a girlfriend right now, and my dad is all proud of him. I'm 2 years older and I cant even talk or text boys, neverless be friends with them outside of school. My dad is so sexist, always makes "funny" sex jokes about women with my brother, and they laugh. He lets my brother know and watch those things and doesnt let me even hear a word about it. All he cares about is my brother becoming a playboy, he doesnt realize how I feel. I know I am too young for a boyfriend now, but it is part of a teens development, i want one about 14 or so, I would never have sex that young, but seriously! He thinks im still a baby, and im not! My brother is way too young to know these things and want to do these things so young and I have told my dad how I feel. But, he said he will stop and my brother isnt allowed, but I know he just said it to make me feel better. I know he still lets my brother hear those, and I hear them. I know he is letting my brother know more about that, and is letting him makeout, date, and do it at 14 or so, maybe even 13. I dont understand this, why men think girls cant date young, but guys can DO IT young!?! My dad wont even let me have guy friends but he thinks "Girls cant have friends like that guys can". even all my friends agree that he is way over protective. I am not a baby anymore and I dont know how to get him to understand, he thinks he is like a normal father and has done nothing wrong. I am tired of this and I want it to end. What do i do? I have tried everything!
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