Im in a tricky situation which I can't believe I am in.
Me and partner have been together since we were 13 ( I know young). We have had few ups and downs along the way. But we thought we knew we wanted each other so have saved for a deposit and got our 1st house in October.
My partner has had a tough time in his job and has been very down.He has been very distant but I thought this was all to do with the job. However, he has said although thats part of it he feels we have rushed too much! He isn't quite sure how we got here and is not sure this is what he wants. He says he knows he loves me but feels this is not fair on me. We have not yet broken up and he says he doesn't know if breaking up is what he wants either.
I don't know what to say or do. I realise we have been together since a young age and committing is scary but if we love each other then surely thats what matters?
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