Avatar Posted by so-un-loved 32 days ago (Question)
Hey,
Im am a 14 year old and would like to know why my mother treats me like the black sheep of my family and i would like to know what i can do to make her love me more or even at all.
When i get mad or depreesed about somethin i do bad thing such as cut myself, runaway or go get drunk and high, people have tried to help me befor but the always lie and say that waht i tell them tell will keep between us and then next thing i know my mom is yelling at me telling me that she should have gave me up when she had the time.
what do i do i am afraid that i will not make it i might leave and be gone for good.
anouther thing is how do you get your mother to belive that you were sexualy asulted even with a rap kit?


Answers

Written by bellacutie 32 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

I'm sorry you're having such a hard time and feeling un-loved. The first thing you need to realize - is you shouln't be geting high or drunk. If you behave responsibly - you may be able to improve your reputation. Who has sexually assaulted you? - I think you should tell your mother or some other trusted member of your family. You could also speak to school counselors.

Written by Chemar 32 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

I agree with Bella...the drugs and alcohol arent going to solve your problems...only make more!

If your mom wont listen to you about the sexual abuse then it would be best for you to tell your school counselor or another adult family member or adult friend

I am so sad to hear that your mom said those things to you.

It really sounds like the only option you may have is to talk to your counselor at school so that they can get help for you.

please know that we are here too when you need to release stuff. it isnt good for you to carry all this hurt inside.

Written by Clyde 29 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

Yes, drugs and alcohol definitely WILL NOT solve your problems. What do you mean about the rape kit? Did you have one done?

You may need to talk to a school counselor or an adult friend/teacher.

Best,

Clyde


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