Avatar Posted by vamigos 23 days ago (Question)
I have shared my marriage problems revolving around my mother-in-law and husband due to our different family backgrounds with my daughter since she grew up, as she insisted on knowing and she was misunderstanding me for years. Our relationship straightened up after that and we came to know each other better. I felt that she is a mature person but now when it is time for her marriage she has been quite apprehensive about it. Lately she has happened to wish to marry a guy with the same attitude like my husband’s with the same different family background. In a sense, the history is repeating itself and this time intentionally and she is apprehensive about it. She does not talk about this relationship as much with her friends and me which is very much unlike her true self. Everybody is asking her whether she is forcing herself into this relationship. I am concerned and worried about her and so is she about her own self. Please put light on this situation. Many times I regret sharing all that I have with her. Will it affect her marriage? Please help and advice.


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Written by bellacutie 21 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

It's ironic that history is repeating itself. I would imagine knowing what happened with you, may be why she's apprehensive with her present relationship. Let's hope that if she does get married, she will know better how to handle problems when they come up. If she's having reservations, maybe she should postpone the ceremony. I hope everything works out for the best -- good luck :) Bella

Written by Clyde 20 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

I agree--any time you (or anyone, as I know this is not about you) has reservations about a relationship, it is not the "right" time for that relationship, or there are some serious issues going on.

Best,

Clyde


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