Avatar Posted by summer 71 days ago (Question)
i was sexually abused as a child my sister dont believe me that much cause i never said n e think but only remembered the sexual abuse when i was 21.my dad was in prison for armed robbery and murder he due out this month.i want to get a lie detector test to prove my dad done it to me can i get help for payin for this?
bdd i feel i look like a freak and ugly my face is a freak and thats why people stare at me and smirk.the mirror cant lie its lik it plays games with me cause sometimes i feel for lik an hour i look ok but then bk to square one.my mirror is dirty so cant see myself properly in it.i have soo many negitive thoughts in my head it affects my life people i see that r ugly they dont get laughted at so i must look lik a fucked up freak.hate my nose need nose job.
i have to tak 20pics b4 i can find say 5 that look ok.that proberly matches my b personatilty disorder.


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Written by Chemar 71 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

Hi

so sorry to hear what you have suffered

I hope that you have a close friend or relative that you can discuss this with, so that they can support you while you find help.

If you feel sure that your father abused you, and especially if you feel he may still be a danger to you, then you need to report it. Do you have a therapist or counselor etc you can speak to, who can help you with the correct procedure to report it? Is your mother there? I am not sure how old you are but based on your saying you remembered the abuse when you were 21 I am guessing you are in your 20s?

the low self esteem you feel is likely a result of all this.

I do hope you will discuss all this with a trustworthy person who can help you take whatever steps are needed to move forward with your life, and that things will get better for you

Written by Clyde 50 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

Yes, definitely report the abuse, if you feel that it happened. The school or police or whomever can (or should) be able to help you find out.

Best,

Clyde


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