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death is near

Posted by JCR 40 days ago (Question)

I am a 27 year old male who's at the end of his rope,i just recently got a divorce, lost all my rights to my baby girl who is my heart i made a bad choice about 2 years ago an moved out of state.When my x wife i first saperated i lost my self almost died then i left town,i thought i had it all plained out. to get on my feet,and get my baby out there well it did not work out that way i havent seen my baby in 2 year i couldnt take it anymore so i moved back home.By the way i did talk to her when i was gone,but anyway i've been trying to do every thing possible to get her back in my life paying child support,ive been drug free for about a year the judge gave me supervised visation she still want let me talk to her or see her, i lost my car, cant find work collecting ump,my life isnt going nowhere,and my sister just died.im getting very tired ive hit a brick wall

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Written by Clyde 40 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

I am sorry to hear what you are going through. I am very sorry to hear about your sisters death, and I can definitely understand being tired and feeling like hitting a brick wall.

You really need to go see a doctor and a therapist. Your sister wouldn't want you feeling sorry for yourself, and your baby would wonder what happened to you.

Please dont give up hope, we are here and are others.

Could you talk to the judge again, and see why you cannot see the baby? Could you go to the cops, explain your predicament--not being able to see the baby, and see what they can do?

There are always good solutions to things. You would never be able to see your baby if you take your life.

About the job part, when you go in for your four week thingy, do you talk to the counselors, and try to search for any kind of job? I know times are hard, but you definitely have to be proactive in searching--while you are there, and if and when you can get someone to take you there--spend as much time possible to figure out what jobs are allowed and what you can do.

DONT GIVE UP!

Also, you can call 1-800-SUICIDE or go to: http://www.metanoia.org/suicide/

for help as well.

Best,

Clyde

Written by eileenS 40 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

JCR,

YOUR LIFE IS WHAT COUNTS AT THIS MOMENT IN TIME, DO NOT WAIT,SEEK FREE COUNSELING AT A NEARBY CLINIC. TAKE SOME DEEP BREATHS,RELAX, EVERYTHING WILL RESTORE ITSELF. LIFE IS PRECIOUS,LOOK IN THE MIRROR TELL YOURSELF YOUR WORTH EVERYTHING,YOUR A GOOD PERSON AND THINGS WILL WORK OUT. TAKE TIME TO WRITE A LETTER TO THE JUDGE INFORMING HIM/HER YOUR SITUATION, AND THAT YOU WANT VISITATION W/YUR CHILD, AND GO FROM THERE.... I WISH YOU ONLY THE BEST.

Written by bellacutie 39 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

I agree with the other posters. I'm also sorry your sister recently died. I know it's hard when things are going badly but you just have to keep going. You deserve congratulations for getting off drugs - that's a great achievement. Yes you've made mistakes in the past but that's okay - you can learn from your mistakes. Taking your own life is the worst thing to do so look at the link Clyde gave you - it's a good one. Keep trying to stay on track for the sake of your daughter. Keep things civil between you and your ex, even if it means apologizing to her. Don't give up on trying to keep your daughter in your life. I lost a brother to suicide and it's very devastating to friends and family. Things won't go bad forever - so please never give up!! All the best, Bella

Written by psychsquad 39 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

Try to take things one day at a time. And don't let the things you can't fix or change drive you crazy. When you are older you will realize that you were totally capable of surviving the hell you feel now. I agree with eileenS' advice.