Avatar Posted by san3 117 days ago (Question)
well a year ago..dis guy presented a watch on my birthday n said he loved me....i never used to look gud n becuz he used to be handsome n girlz used 2 woo him i thought he ws joking..i jus laughed at it..i used to hav a best frnd lets name hr x..she went n complained to our teacher dat he ws harassing me n teasin me about d way i luk n since x ws my best frnd i thought she knew d right thing to do n wen d teachr askd me abt it i said dat guy ws indeed harassing me...he ws nt allowed to go for d football tournament n he din say a wrd r tell d teachr he didnt do anything lik dat..n nw im lik u can say feelin guilty n more dan dat hating myself cuz i missed such a nice guy...4 wen i opened dat same present on 22nd july 09 (i kept it in my cupboard wid d wrapper on it one whole year)der ws a note sayin dat he doesnt go for outer appearances n he liked me for i used to be nice to evryone..im goin 2 b 16 dis year..ill be in college nxt year--single,miserable,n widout a boyfrnd...is der any way i could fix all dis?i really wanna apologise to him ...but i really cant..


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Written by bellacutie 116 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

I agree this was a mistake to tell the teacher that he was harassing you, when in reality he was being nice. I think friend X was jealous of the fact that he gave you the watch and decided to be manipulative and make you feel pressured to go along with the plan of getting him in trouble.

I would imagine he has moved on - but can you possibly tell him in a letter or text that you are sorry for that mistake and that you were pressured by a jealous friend. I think this would make you feel less guilty but you shouldn't get your hopes up that he may start liking you again, even though it's possible.

Let this be a good lesson to be on the look out for jealous friends. I think this post also reveals that you may be struggling with self esteem. You missed an opportunity with a nice guy because you didn't believe that it was possible for a popular guy to like you, because you didn't believe in yourself and your friend picked up on that. How is your self esteem now? Try contacting him and explain what happened. Best of luck, Hugs Bella

Written by Clyde 115 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

I dont see why you couldnt apologize. I do think it was a mistake about the teacher too.

He probably has moved on, but write him a letter or text and apologize. You never really know how things will work out until you try.

Hope you are believing in yourself more.

Best,

Clyde

Written by san3 114 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

tnk u


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