i have no friends. the friend that i did have used to hang around with me because he fell out with his cusen but now hes made friends with his cusen again he just leaves me. he goes out with a big group of 20+ friends while i stay at home and write on things like this. i'm really depressed about all this. i used to have quite a few friends that i abondened as they began to smoke weed. this matter makes me so depressed and im sick of everything. i hate my life. ive thought about suicide several times and planned it out, i know exactly what i would do. i frequently cut myself on my theigh therefor no one will see. i have no social life at all. is there any way i can make things better? i dont want to tell my parents cause they will just make this matter worse
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Hi there SamWelfoden,
Have you talked to your school counselor? That would be a good place to start.
Let them know how you feel friendless and stuff.
Have you thought about joining clubs and groups (at school or otherwise)? This can help too. There are people around who have fun, and have fun without illegal drugs.
Best,
Clyde
Highschool is rough, but giving up is even worse. It is good that you stick to your beliefs about avoiding the drugs, but why do you think drugs are so bad? Because they are bad for you and lead to an early death? Because they're an easy way to avoid problems? Well, what is the difference between drugs and suicide then?
Like Clyde said, try joining a club. The reason why all your friends started smoking weed is because everyone was doing it right? They found people they had something in common with, or at least FORMED something common between them. If you find something that you can relate to with a group, you'll find it much easier to make friends
hello :) don't worry please , you haven't met nice people yet !!! but im sure someday you will !!!
you don't have to cut yourself its stupid .. if u feel unloved , I love u , even if i dont know you i care about u and i want u to be happy ! :))))))))) so i hope ull find in real life someone like me . dont hurt yourself please
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