Avatar Posted by henson1956 51 days ago (Question)
I have so many sad days. I am disabled due to illness and I have to live with my mother. I worked alot of jobs bartentending in my life so I don't get a lot of disability money. Here is the situation.. I am 53 and all of my life my mother has talked negatively about me. It is like the bad things I did as a teenager she just cannot for get. She and my sister talk about me all the time. When she gets mad she gets on the phone and talks bad about me to her friends. She lied to my brother and told him that I beat one her. She accuses me of stealing things. She does not do my other siblings like this, so why me. It is like she is out to get me. She has even gone so far as to tell people that I live here for free and don't give her any money . She just want people to think I am a bad person and she just will not stop. I cannot not afford to move but that would not stop her.


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Written by pickled 50 days ago Rating: 1 | Rate Answer: + -

Your still living with her at 53 .. she cares more than you will ever think .. people always have a bitch about other people .. do not take it to heart

Written by duskndawn 49 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

Tht's really very sad tht being ur mother she is doin this to u wherein she should not...

I can't say wat eva shez doin has some rsn shez just being selfish and treating as though ur nt her child...many people do ths way and there is no ans as to y thy do lyk this..i knw of a frnd whoz mother did d same to him and is doin so wit him lyk ur mother...so it's nt tht ur alone suffering ...bt wat i don't get is despite of ur illness shez doin this..all i can is just don't give her a damn ;let her speak wateva she wants to just don't stop her coz if u do she'll get to say tht shez rite and ur tryn to stop her frm letting d truth out.......

Let ppl thnk wateva thy want to thy r no one ..u don't have to ans nyone just God and he knws ur rite..

In the end i would just say tht don't lose Hope in God have Faith evrythng will be alright .. I really feel very sorry for u..coz u can't move nor can u scrap a living .. one more thng ppl do love u ;u may realize or not...(mom's an exception)..

DON'T TAKE TENSION JUST TAKE CARE OF UR HEALTH .. MAY GOD SHOWER HIS BLESSINGS ON U !!

byee tc :)

Written by Clyde 45 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

I dont think your Mom hates you either. I think a lot of it has to deal with you both living there for so long. Relationships have a way of being "nit-picky" when they have been around that long and people get upset.

You can talk to her nicely, and explain that you are trying to do your best, and see where that leads.

Treat her well, as I am sure you are.

Best,

Clyde


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