Avatar Posted by lottie110 27 days ago (Question)
I didnt no where else to turn so guess now im turning to online and to see what the people out there have got to help me!
i`m really worrying about my self at the moment i think i have a depression problem and i dont no who to turn to. Me and my mum its hard to think of how to put it, but lets just say i find it hard to tell her any thing at the moment, ive had a hard year this year my nan died and 2 of my other pets who basicaly .i now no im nothing with out,about 3 times a day i cry and my eyes r constantly red and puffy but when my mum or brother or dad ask i get stressy and start shouting and then it ends in a massive argument i think im turnin to suaside becuase i feel there is no one out there to help my freinds seem to think its hormons but its realy not because they all say that they feel like it but to be honest i feel completly diffrent from what they say they feel like . please help me im scared of what i might do to my self.
ANY THING WILL HELP THANKS X


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Written by Fpsy 27 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

Hi lottie,

I am sorry to hear about your nan and your pets. You sound like your going through grief, and what is happening to you is perfectly normal. It's just that you don't have anyone who your able to talk to about this.

Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary situation. Your grief feels really intense, but overtime it will subside and the feelings will be less intense.

If you can speak to your dad let him know that your upset over the loss of your gran and your pets, and feel you would like to speak to a counselor. If your family can't afford one, then speak to your school counselor. They know how to deal with whole range of stuff, not just stuff about school.

Here is a website called reach out, it's got some really cool stuff about handling grief and loss. What you might feel, and how to manage some of the feelings that your experiencing. It's an Australian website but the info is really good so give it a read. There also stories from other people in situations just like yours.

http://au.reachout.com/find/issues/loss-and-grief

Hope this helps.

Written by Clyde 25 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

Hi there.

It definitely could be an issue of depression. Can you talk to school counselors about what is going on?

I am sorry to hear about your Gran, and you also might be able to talk to others (such as a professional) about what is going on with you.

Also, try this link:

http://www.metanoia.org/suicide/

or call 1-800-SUICIDE.

Do not give up!

Best,

Clyde


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