Ok. Im 18. Just finished my freshman year in college and basically failed all my courses, both semesters. I’m major in business management and I had to take economics 100 and it was really hard. I passed two english courses because I was friends with the teachers. I honestly felt I should of failed those courses also, I couldn’t write a paper to save my life. I also passed a one credit course about wellness because it was easy. I’m lazy, I try exercising, hate it! I want to join the military but it’s not for the weak minded. I really just want to start my career. But I’m not interested in anything, not social work, not cleaning, not business, not engineering, not math, science reading or writing. CAN ANYONE SUGGEST ANY UNKNOWN CAREERS I COULD PURSUE? I tried talking to my parents about community college but they yell at me and my mom is abusive, meaning she slap me cause I failed. They pushed me into college after I graduated, even though it’s not for me. Now I have no choice. I’m spoiled and dependent on my parents. They were stricted. They never let me out the house, and never pushed me to do anything growin up, then told me to go to college. I’m very sensitive, I’m shy, have no friends and I can’t stand up for myself. I realized in college, I’m not intelligent at all. I went for my license failed the written test because I was TOO BORED of studying for it. My mother always been very VERBAL abusive towards me. She never really assaulted me, but she always been a very mean lady by the things she say. It just made me hate her and now I could never speak up to her or anyone. My mom never taught me to cook, clean or do my hair growing up. Lately she’s been getting worse. Always sayin stuff like “you wasted all my money” “you don’t do sh**” and “I can’t wait for you to get out” I know she right but I don’t wanna hear her say it, all I want is out but I have no where to go. My other family, it just too much to take in an extra member and all my grandparents past away. It sounds like excuses but I really feel like I can’t do anything. I know I’m a loser and going nowhere fast, except into debt. Not cause my mom says it, but I realized my own actions. It depresses me. I’m not suicidal or anything I just need some guidance. I just need a suggestion on what I should or need to do. As of right now I’m working as a cash register. I hate working with customers. They always complain. I mean I thought I was a complainer, but customers are even worse. Next month I go back to college, just to waste another 20,000. On the bright side, I do think I’m pretty and my only friend is my boyfriend. I love him, but he’s leaving for the navy soon… So I guess I’m back to the basics. All I need is something I’m interested in, but don’t know how to find it. This semester I’m going to try to seek for help for school work, but I’m just not interested in it. On top of me having very low confidence in myself on the ability to do anything, I’m not use to change. College was a big change, but all I did was go to class and stay in my dorm. So once again can anyone please give me a suggestion? Please.
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