Avatar Posted by girlynebbish 127 days ago (Question)
A close friend of mine wants to see a really good movie I've been raving about. I'd definitely like to watch it with her, but one thing has me worried. It contains a suicide attempt, and I know my friend tried to kill herself about 6 or 7 years ago. I don't know if this would be very upsetting -- or worse, triggering -- for her. I'd broach the subject with her myself, but it would give away much of the plot and, more importantly, it would probably seem patronizing and offensive. What should I do?


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Written by Fame 127 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

You have very little to worry about. Just don't make it awkward for her. 6 years is a very long time. Most people who attempt suicide feel foolish for their attempts even weeks afterward. She is just as reasonable as you or I. She simply went through a rough patch. Really though, you think she has gone through all this time without ever being reminded of what she tried to do? Don't walk on eggshells around her.

Written by Clyde 123 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

You are worried about her wanting to commit suicide again, but are worried you would MESS UP THE PLOT if she was told by you?

Why worry about the blasted movie?

You could tell her that there is something in it that you worry about her seeing, and are afraid if she saw it, it could harm her?

But I do agree with Fame--6 to 7 years ago is a big difference in mental health years.

I agree also not to walk on eggshells with her. I know and appreciate you are honestly just trying to help her out.

Best,

Clyde


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