Throughout my life, even though I know people are using me, I tend to feel worthless unless someone needs me. My husband demand a lot from me and doesn't really help where it really counts with my children nor does he have a job so I am the sole provider for my entire household, him included. When it gets to be too much and I voice to him that it's getting to be too much to have to hold up the house solo, it becomes an arguement and he tells me that he doesn't need me or my money and that he doesn't need me to do anything for him. Hearing that he doesn't need me makes me feel worthless and I tend to fold and do what he wants because of feeling that if he doesn't need me for anything that I'm not worth anything.
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