will she come back to me?

Posted by mauro 21 days ago (Question)

we stayed togetherd for a bout 7 monthes, the problems started getting more, she asked me that she wants to live alone for sometimes may be she will miss me again, now we live separately, lat week she took all her staff and left, she said let us be as friends we can call each other i said no, since she left i feel so lonely i realized how much i love her, thinking of her all the time, i text her daily telling her about my love and missing her, but no answers, tried to call her even but no answers, only once she talked for quick answers please i am very busy looking for accomodation please dont push me so much i will call you when i am free.
please i need a help what should i do should i call her again or not, should i send her flowers or text to say good morning or evening..please advise, i miss her really so much.

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Written by Chemar 20 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

Hi Mauro

I know this must be very painful for you but I think she has been very clear in what she wants, and as much as it hurts you, you need to respect that

If there is any chance of you getting back together, the best thing you can do is give her the space she needs to decide what she wants, without the daily pressure from you. That will just drive her further away. It will be hard I know, but the best you can do is stop contacting her completely. If she wants you back, let her be the one to make contact. In the meantime, try to fill your life with activity and friends and move forward.

hope that helps a bit

Written by Clyde 20 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

I hate to say it, but I agree with Chemar too. You just have to let go, and she basically has said (in a roundabout way) that she is not interested at the moment.

Let time go by and try to take care of yourself.

Best,

Clyde

Written by daniellemn 14 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

I know exactly how you feel. my husband walked out on me about a month ago and it hurts so much. we were together for 8 years. i miss him so much and cry everyday. i am trying not to contact him and give him his space but it is so hard. He told me that he still loved me but he needed time to think about what he wants. sometimes when i text him he just ignores it especially if its about our relationship. It is so hard but you really need to give them their space.