I have been with my husband for 3 years now, we have been married for over a year. i met him when i was 21 and since then we have had our ups and downs but we are generally happy and so in love.
After we got married we moved to a small town so i'm far from my family and friends, i work full time so i'm pretty much busy but the thing is i havent been able to make friends here and so we spend our time always together.
Problem is whenever my husband is on playstation, or computer (either chatting or working), or on phone for more than an hour i get really angry (i dont normally say anything to him until he finishes and so all my angry keeps building up). Once he is finished i explode, i start shouting and he even if he tries to say sorry i push him away. i cant seem to be able to control what i say which upsets him. i can understand that he needs time to himself but ones i hear playstation/phone/computer an alarm goes off in my head (happens quite regularly) as i hate them so much... i really need to control my anger cos he really doesnt deserve it, i love him to bits and really dont want to hurt him
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