Well every time i want to speak to my husband it doesn't mater what it is he is always on the defense. Wend the children's are around he always want to talk bad about me in front of the children. he got my children not respecting me
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I don't know if the marriage is over, but it surely isn't healthy is it? You do need to have a serious discussion with him about what you need to change and how you want the marriage to go at this point. If he isn't willing to work with you - perhaps even going to couples counseling - then there isn't much you can do about that.
You can, however, seek counseling on your own and become a stronger person and regain your self respect and become a better role model for your children.
Good wishes
drjean
Hi there Sinia:
I would definitely discuss this with him in private. Let him know that you do not appreciate the no good stuff, and that you don't want the children talking bad about you--as you both are parents and partners in the home--you must be equals.
It could help if you could get him to couples counseling, which may not happen.
If he does not agree to talk to you or agree to counseling or agree to respect you, you may have to find a way without him.
I really hope you can work it out.
Best,
Clyde
It sounds like your husband is trying to turn your children against you. Your husband may have his own mental issues. I think you should leave him, and take the children.