She told me i would be her 1st but she been fingered and felt up and i just don't want it i fell in love with her but i have lost all respect for her
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Well, I can understand if you wouldnt, but at least be decent to her. She is a human being who may see things differently than you.
Give it some time. Talking to her, you may find that you like her for different reasons then just the issue you mentioned.
There is more to people than the first time sexual issue, and while I am not touching that debate with a ten foot anything, I do also think that definitions of what is sex and what is not may also vary from person to person.
Of course, the whole thing is up to you and her. If you dont feel like you should be with her, then you shouldnt.
Best wishes, and I hope things work out...