I have been married for almost a year now to my husband, and I love him more than anything. He has a daughter who is four years old with his ex girlfriend (we are both named Megan, this also worried me). I really truly love his daughter and love spending time with her, but we only see her about once a month. His ex girlfriend always tries to talk to Kris casually like they are friends or something and I get extremely upset when I even see her name on the caller i.d. I feel like I am constantly mad at Kris because he has a daughter with some other girl and I feel so horrible. Why does it break my heart so bad when she calls or comes around? I feel so selfish, I am trying to get counseling and my husband and I are actually about to get a divorce, in fact we are waiting for the papers to get here so we can sign them, but I would do anything to save this marriage. I just don't understand why it hurts me so bad to even hear his daughter's name, I don't know what's wrong with me. Please help...
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