Avatar Posted by Leighdee 28 days ago (Question)
Hello, Me and my other friend are quite worried about our friend, she is a really loud and bubbly person but we think theres more to it. She is seriously so loud and crazy, also violent but acts it in a jokey way but really hurts, and goes mad all the time but joking but doesnt realise it makes you down and if you do it back to her, she does it even more. Also she is forever talking about sex and sexual stuff all the time, even a teacher commented on her once saying she spoke about sex all the time and so much, she is also hyper alllll the time first thing in the morning, and always has energy and just bursts out suddenly all the time. We are really worried about her and wonder if she has some sort of problem, could you please help me. Thankyou and could you write back as soon as you can please :)


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Written by JunieBeatrice 27 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

Hi. I am sorry you are very concerned about your friend. Unfortunately, it is very hard to tell what is going on with someone particularly with a short narrative. Most of the time we cannot change how another person is anyway, we can only chage how we react to them. If her talking about sex and sexual stuff all the time bothers you have you tried telling her that? Maybe she is not realizing that. If she is physically violent towards you and after talking to her it does not stop you may need to enlist the help of a teacher or school counselor. Just tell them what your concerns are and they can give you some advice on how to deal with it. Best of luck. Junie

Written by Clyde 25 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

It might be best to discuss this with a teacher and see what can be done. How about the one you mentioned?

She may have attention deficit, or some other kind of disorder, or it may be drugs, or a myriad of every kind of thing you can think of.

Please see if you can get her help that way. You all could get her together and talk to her too, and see whats up.

Best,

Clyde


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