I recently found out i was pregnant a day after my boyfriend broke up with me. Now i feel as though he staying around just because I'm pregnant but i don't want that. i would like to have an abortion because i never wanted a baby out of a relationship. He is verbally abusing me and it's making me stressed and losing alot of weight. Since I've found out i was pregnant i lost 22lbs, also lost my job due to being sick and now have to depend on him for financial support. I love him but want to be happy again? he says the baby will make us a better family.i need some words of encouragment. what should i do?
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U really need 2 think about what you wanna do though I know its kinda hard tothink straight right now. But me personally, I would not advise u 2 get an abortion.
I hope that you do not have the abortion, personally...but I can understand how you feel.
He should not be making you feel bad about yourself, and yes, indeed, depression is extremely usual when it comes to a breakup.
Is there anyone with half a brain around there that can help you (not counting the boyfriend--who is maing you feel bad) discuss things in your life, such as your family, etc?
I really wish you the best. Please keep in touch.
Best,
Clyde
i know how you are feeling it seems like maybe this relationship has moved a bit to fast and having a kid is a big hastle i see this happen were i live all the time i understand you have been through alot of hell lately and aparently you have your doubts as to why this guy has stuck around for so long wether it was because he loved you or the fact you are pregnant i think it might be time to sit down and express how you feel to him and hopefully he will understand most guys usually do