I have been seeing my therapist for 2 years. I think she is a good therapist but for the last few months I feel tension between us because I disagreed with her. Last month, I asked her if she was sorry that she picked me as a patient. She wouldn't answer the question. All she said was if I'm unhappy she will give me recommendations to other therapists. Yesterday I sent her an email asking her what I did to her that she dislikes me so much. Her answer was she is sorry I feel that my therapist doesn't like me and she can give me referrals. She is strict, put all these boundaries on me but I have transference feelings that she is god-like (not erotic feelings). I want to continue working with her and want to work on these issues but all she says if I'm not happy she will refer me to other therapist. I don't know what to do. I don't know why she is mean to me. Is there anything I could say to her to save this relationship or should I just move on. It's so hard to find good therapists!!
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