i feel if given the chance we could work it out
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Hi there,
I do agree with a certain something, it is indeed hard to feel this kind of thing, but sometimes we beat up ourselves more than we should.
When there isnt anything we can do about it, and we continually sit around being upset about it, it doesnt help us feel better at all.
Of course its not fair to other women to start a relationship if you don't like them and are still "hooked" on her. That is a good thought--cause a lot of people dont think about others, and you did.
You just have to give yourself more time to feel better, and let things go. I know you really dont want to let her go, but if you just let things "be" at the moment, you will feel better later.
We have all been there...and sadly, all will probably be there again sooner or later.
I wish there was a better way to help you.
Best,
Clyde
thank you i know i feel its hard to move on while i still love her seems its not fair to other women
I feel for you, but don't kid yourself. Sounds like she was saying that to lessen the blow on you. Do you really think she would have broken up with you if she really loved you and wanted to be with you ? Sometimes actions say what words can't. As harsh as this may seem, your best bet is to move on and find someone who does love you and WILL fall in love with you. Don't settle for less, you owe it to yourself. Good luck !