So me and my boyfriend been together for quite some time now. I never questioned anything hes said to me but after a few incidents i dont know if i should trust him. Here are a few reasons....The other day i dont know how exes came up but he mentioned me being friends with my ex still on fb and I was like if it that big of a deal i will delete him, and I did. Just the next day he said something about him deleting all his exes off fb and blocking them, (He randomly volunteered to tell me he did.) then as I'm laying on his chest he was on his phone scrolling through his news feed and I see one of his exes in it. I told him I thought you deleted your exes, and he said I did she added me back. I said how did she add you back if you Supposently deleted all your exes and blocked them. why lie about it. And I got upset.. It's not that I care if he cool with his ex but why lie about something like that. this is also the same ex that he was going to hang out with behind my back when I went out of town. He apparently didn't go and see her.So he says. It just makes me think what else is he lieng about. I didn't even tell him to delete his exes.
He also went out of his was to contact another one of his exes that claimed has treated him Badley and lied about him being the father of her child. I confronted him about it and he says he contacted her just to see how she was, and if she was alive. I told him it doesn't make since for you to hate her so much and after all the stuff that she Supposently put you through and contact her just to see how she is doing. And ehy would you want to be around all the negativey anyways. I do know for sure if something is going on, but I know something isn't right.
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