Avatar Posted by LJA369 305 days ago (Question)
Do you think that it should be Fair for a 21 year old guy to get kick out of he's house, and get fired from his job, for yelling at a small dog?

I work for my Two Gay Uncles, and they Decided to do that!

I got kick out because of that. I call my Girlfriend, and she told me to go stay at her house for Two weeks. Until the last 3 days that i find out that she was talking with some one else. But she said they were just Guy Friends?

I was filled with Rage, and Anger at the moment because i was kicked out, and fired from my job, and i had taken all the anger out on my girlfriend, and then thinking bad of her, but until this Day, she still Talks to me, and see's me. She gets upset because she says that it’s me who is 2 much of a jealous freak.

But now i have been kicked out 5 months. The 1st 4 Months i was filled with rage because they did that to me? I had everything. A House, a Best Paying Job, and they took it away because i yelled at the dog? And it was only 13 Days before my Birth Day on the 27th of August.

Till This day. Im still homeless, and have no where to live, and my Uncles are very successfull, and they don't bother to see if im okay or anything because of me yelling at their Dog.

If you ask? about my parents? I don't have any! That is why, i have no where to go!


Answers

Written by dovebair 304 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

Hi LJA369,

It sounds like you've had some bad luck. You asked the question as to why you should keep on living. Now, I'm not going to give you any bogus religious answer, because I don't believe in that kind of thing. What I will tell you is that poverty is not something to kill yourself over. What you need now is to re-evaluate your situation. Have you ever considered why you were really "kicked out"? If someone housed you and paid you a wage, they are not capricious enough to throw you out for yelling at a dog. Perhaps it was the last straw for them. Think back about your old behaviors. Did you repeatedly offend them, engage in behaviors they did not agree with, or do anything to hurt the business? Have you considered that maybe they were just looking for a reason to kick you out? Perhaps your rage plays a part in this situation. Did you ever honestly go to them, with your proverbial hat in your hand, and apologize? Maybe ask them what was really going on? Its not really about the dog. There is some underlying conflict between you and your uncles. If you are unsatisfied with your relationship with them, take the responsibility to go and try to re-connect with them. I realize that this is easy to say, and hard to do. Pride is a huge obstacle for most people, but realize that if you change your thoughts you can change yourself. And wouldn't you be happy if one day of humble behavior lead you back into the life you desired? In regard to your girlfriend, it might be the same problem. You are placing the blame on her as opposed to accepting it yourself. If you have trouble seeing why you have difficulty in relationships, (ie: you don't understand why this is happening to you) try to see a councilor or a mental health professional because these people can give you an objective view into your behavioral patterns.

Good luck!

-Bair

Written by Clyde 304 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

Could you possibly go back with your girlfriend? Are you sure that they are not just guy friends?

Or could you apologize to your Uncles, or talk to them so they can see your side of the story?

You have to have a place to stay...

Best,

Clyde


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