Avatar Posted by Broughtboot608 650 days ago (Question)
For some time I have been feeling alone and angry with myself for an unknown reason, I never want to be outside or with friends and family. I don't ever want to anything fun, all I do is sit in my room. because of doing nothing I have become hateful and scittish. I always feel hatered towards myself but start projecting it at others and feel taht EVERYTHING is my fault
please help me understand


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depressedgirl
650 days ago
Hi

Sorry you feel this way. Are you depressed? You sound depressed to me.
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JunieBeatrice
650 days ago
Well first, although it is hard to believe, and I am really truly hearing you that you feel that everything is your fault, but, it is not all your fault. There may be some things that are your responsibility and plenty of things that are not. I know it can feel true, but trust me, it is not not true.

So you have not been feeling yourself. There could be many causes, physical or emotional. Have you gone to the doctor? Sometimes we can feel down for physical reasons, just as likely it could be an emotional cause or even hormones. But we don't know until we start getting checked out.

You have lost interest in things that you used to enjoy. I gather that you used to enjoy being outside, or with friends or family. Try to gather up the strength to try doing something that you used to enjoy, you may find that you still enjoy it.

I suggest getting help from outside of yourself. It may be sitting down with your family and telling them that you just don't feel like yourself and you are not liking so much how you are feeling. Let them help you. You may need to go to the doctor for a check up, or a therapist to see if there is anything that they can help you with.

It may help to call up a close old friend and just connect over coffee/dinner/walk, something, they may offer insight that you have not seen in yourself.

The thing is, you don't have to continue to suffer in silence, you reached out here which says to me, you want to feel better. Try reaching out in real life and see what happens.

Wishing you the best

Junie
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sunshine777
648 days ago
You should ask God. And I am sure you did! but stop to listen to his answer! I mean- seek Him in a totally different way! Many churches have great meetings where they help you undertand about God and about what only the Holy Spirit can fulfill - our heart!

''Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in.'' Mt 11,28-30.

In Christ with love!
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hansome1
646 days ago
you need to change your mental state ,force yourself out of that dam room!,go to the mall,let some time pass,sit on a bench and be cranky,then walk around a bit and life WILL push you though a fresh door,mabey meet someone different,go to the park,just anything different to inturupt this negative cycle your in. Its like a record stuck in a groove,you need to force your ass out that door!,I don't care if you don't want to or how damm cranky you are,just be cranky somewhere new by yourself,and you'll see the crankyness start to melt away...and things will start to change for the better,now do it!!don't make me come over there
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