My husband constantly gets so upset at me he literally stops talking to me for days and now it's been a week. Last Saturday he asked me why I hadn't purchased the spyware for the laptop he gave me for Christmas and I told him right now it wasn't a priority because I had other bills. He immediately told me I have my priorities all wrong and I asked him how and he wouldn't pinpoint it and he hasn't spoken to me since. This is just an example of the minor things that make him upset at me. Why?