Avatar Posted by duffer 684 days ago (Question)
I have a friend that never txts or calls me out of the blue. she does answer my emails and calls but she never starts the conversations. im i right to be so upset by this as she does have a lot of friends. im i just clinging on to a none existant friendship or could she just be bad at making the first move?


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Written by Clyde 684 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

Duffer,

Perhaps she is afraid to start the conversation, as you said. Sometimes it is hard for people to know exactly what to say, or how to say it.

I sometimes myself am that way--I will get super busy, and then someone will email me, and I have forgotten about them for a few seconds, and then I email them back. Perhaps she just gets busy off and on?

You call it a non-existent friendship one minute, and then in the beginning, you mention she is a friend to you. I don't mean this badly, but do you feel at all that your friendship is just a one way street, or do you have reasons to believe she is your friend?

I really can empathize and understand your feelings in the situation, because of course, you want her to contact you first sometimes.

I hope for the best for you.


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