Hi I'm 22 years old I meet my boyfriend around July of 2011 . At first when I meet him everything was good he would take me out to eat or the movies or just out . After a while I guess it was all fake a way to get to my heart for the moment and later show his true colors . After a while he would never pick my calls much and when he did call me back he would tell me his in the studio making music and that he didn't like when people disturb him that music was his passion and that no one could get in between that and well it bothered me him barely calling or pickin up same on text messaging but we would see each other ever week at least 4 times . When we would go out he would be rude and flurt with woman and I would confront him he would make up stories like for example we went bar hoping with my brother and he went outside to smoke a cigg and he came back with red lipstick kisses on his cheek and I asked what that was about he made up that the one from across the bar was French and said hi to him that French woman kiss you on both cheeks and I got highly upst and he got MADD that I didn't trust him that he went to leave the bar and I chased after him but idk why when I know something was wrong about what he did well we spoke and I got over it and we kept talking but he was just to friendly with woman it bothered me . On December he decided to brake up with me and I was depressed for about two weeks and I kept sleeping alot then I started to feel like my body was changing and I asked my sister to get me a pregnancy test and I ended up pregnant I was so surprised shaking and I didn't know what to do since we stoped talking but I told my mom and she told me I had to tell him tht same night he came to my house and he was upset because he felt we were to young and that a kid would just mess our life's up but I told him I didn't care what he thought that I would give birth to a beautiful baby with or without him and he decided to be a man and take care of me and this child so I moved in with him when I was three months , I thought our realtionship would get better , he proposed to me I was so happy but then our realtionship was not good because we didn't have communication we fought alot because I was jealous and didnt trust him for nothin he stoped with his music (his passion ) he stoped talking to friends woman because I would always accuse him of something that he wasn't doing so to shut me up he stoped talking to his female friends but I still would complain about everything I guess I pushed him away and we both weren't happy , we both gave up alot and we were losing ourself really in the relationship , I gave birth to our beautiful baby boy on October 2012 and our realtionship still arguing to much I though things would get better but they didn't till one day I told him that I would be staying with my mom for a month so we can give each other space he was so upset as hurt I guess because I didn't ask him how he felt about it that he broke up with me and I ended leaving the next day to my brothers house to love but I lasted just a week came back asking for forgiveness and for him I take me back but he was just to hurt and telling me no not now and I would ask will it ever work out if things change my jealousy and if I go to school and work get myself busy and him too because we see each other 24/7 we don't work nor go to school we lie with his parents in a new house thu bought and well I told him if he could let me stay there so everything would be easier me going back to school and work and just finding myself all over and that maybe we can work on our realtionship but to him it's not something that will be easy forgiven he said we both need to just be on our own and that later if we decided we can be together again , I'm so hurt and depressed I don't wanna eat nor smile or even do anyhing I just wanna be with him and work on myself at the same time do you think there's still a chance for us to rebuild our relationship with communication if we take our time but first working on ourself can there be the chance that he will really wanna be with me agin I love him I just hope there's a chance there what do you think ?
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