Im not sure exactly how to ask this question..... Ive had a fetish for spandex and aggressive women (wrestling, working out) that i usually masturbate to. I tend to have problems with impotence with females, not all the time, but often enough to make a problem. Does anyone know if my fetish is affected my ability to create and maintain an erection with females? Also, more importantly, does anyone have a suggestion how i can work to absolve myself of this sexual fetish?
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Hi there curious...
Yes, it can be. You can become so attached to the fetish, the pictures, etc., that it is hard to focus on a living, breathing human being.
You are used to and "conditioned" into seeing the women "set up" the way you want them to be, so if you find a woman in real life, and she isn't exactly like you "picture" (no pun intended) her to be, you have a problem obtaining an erection, or keeping one.
You do need to visit with a counselor or a sex therapist who can help you better.
Best,
Clyde
counseling is the answer, yes an embarrassing problem, but it will be worth the hard work!!