About 5 years ago a long-time (10yrs+) family friend & I became more than friends. We're both married, & I know it was wrong. While nothing physical ever happened beyond a kiss, I devolped DEEP feelings for him & he said he did for me. We're both in bad marriages. Neither of our spouses know anything about our relationship.
A while back, he just quite literally fell off the face of the earth. He stopped answering my calls or calling back. Well, I've since found out he was actually cheating (really cheating) w/ another woman all the while.
I was really hurt, but realized just how stupid I was to begin with to get myself in the situation, but also to trust such an idiot w/ my heart. You see, he treated me REALLY well, & I fell for it & fell hard for him. Since I still REALLY love him, I don't expect to forget him, but want and NEED to move on w/ my life!...
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