I met the woman of my life 3 years ago & to this day, we have the absolute best times of our lives together..except for the sex. For 3 years, I turned her down alot for sex b/c I was uncomfortable and unsure of it, etc. She was always upset (and rightfully so) & eventually turned it off as a defense mechanism.. 3 years later now, something clicked and I'm ready & so into her, but she is repulsed by the thought of sex w/ me. I realize the past history is a huge mental block that is preventing all the attraction we have between us. We've talked it out, but aren't sure what to do, if anything =/
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