I am 15 years old I have been with this girl since May. Our relationship has been odd to say the least. When i first met here she developed a crush on me first, and that was back in late October, early November. I told her I wasn't ready and it would be best to move on. In truth I was nervous beyond belief, this being my first time another person liking me. So between then and December 27 we talked a lot, then I started liking her. I asked her out and we were together 3 weeks, I took it too slow and we broke up. For the next several months she wasn't that nice to me, but I never lost feelings for her so I was always nice. Then she developed another crush and then we started talking more again, she told me she never kissed anyone and was getting her braces off soon, and wanted to kiss when they were off. When she got them off she came over my house and we kissed, later that week I got enough courage and asked her out properly. The first 3 weeks were amazing, once we were together for a month I got her a piece of jewelry. Then we fought for a bit during the 5-6 week. I managed to keep us together. Then it seemed to get better, but now we are starting to fight again. I really don't want to lose her. What could I do? She isn't like other girls I know she is very shy, and doesn't like PDA much.
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Hi Matt!
It could be that she is conflicted with your relationship. You did mention other crushes...it is possible she might like someone else at the moment.
The best way to do this, and I tell everyone this when they ask this kind of thing, is to communicate with her, ask her what is going on, and how to make it better.
Discussion is vital in any relationship. She can't read your mind, and you can't read hers (which is why you are asking).
Discuss this with her and see what she thinks. If she likes you still, that is so very great. If she doesn't, you will at least know.
Best,
Clyde
Hi
She sounds like a nice girl and she probably is.
I think you need to talk to her find out whats going on in her mind it could be something simple.
I also know how special a first love is and you think there will be no one else out there as special as her, but there will be and is. You are very young you have your whole life ahead of you, just have fun and enjoy your youth. So if this relationship doesn't work out for you don't be to disheartened and give up hope there is that special person out there just waiting for you to meet them.I wish you luck in what ever happens.
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