My husband & I have been married for almost 10 years...he started cheating on me 3 months after we married. Sometimes I get it...things can be bad between although its no excuse. However, this last time we said okay...we are going to counseling and the real help we need.
However, we never made it. I found out he was perusing a woman works with. I don't get it...I know it's NOT me. I don't understand why he does it. I honestly don't think he does either. The elaborate lies he tell to these women is absolutely ridiculous. From, I'm dead, to I cheated & the kids aren't his, to he works for Homeland Security (he's a blue collar guy).
I don't think its about the sex because there have been times where its has been emotional cheating (more like lies) and I had to make him understand that.
Has anyone ever heard a such a thing? I'm a fool and a loser for wanting him ? Try save our marriage? Or do I just give up?
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