A female virgin masturbates a lot but does not want to have sex. She has male friends but not a boyfriend. She is, however close to this guy who has a girlfriend but makes it known that he cares for her (so he says) and wants to have sex with her. He also lives far away but they stay in constant contact.
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I don't find anything wrong with it. Once those sexual urges are realized, it's difficult to say no to them. Rather than satiate the desire with random sex before marriage, what else is there to do? I applaud her intent to stay a virgin. Having a boyfriend and not having sex is quite healthy, btw. It makes the relationship focus on the most important things and isn't driven by only physical urges.
If you suspect it is a problem for her, encourage her to talk to her MD about it.
Take care
drjean
(((Meb)))
It appears that she may just be normal.
It would depend on how much she masturbates too. Is she making herself sore, or anything of the like? If not, I would basically call it normal.
It may be her only way of feeling "close" to the guy.
Hope this helps.
Best,
Clyde