Right after Christmas in 2008 my wife, now exwife, told me she was through. I did everything I could to save our marriage because I love her so much. I know I pushed to hard and we are divorced now. No matter what I do, I cannot give up on us and our marriage. All I can see is her face not matter what I am doing or whether I am around people or not. I have tried dating, but I still just think about my ex. I have been to counseling and have been through Landmark education and nothing works for me to let her go or more importantly to get her back. She is my entire world and my life. I know I have pressured her so much that she won't even talk to me. I am completely at a loss of what to do about us and myself. I have lost my job because of this and am unable to get another one. I know I cannot a live in which all that I see is her and think about is her. I am so tired of crying all the time. Everyone says that each day gets easier, but the days get harder and harder for me. I don't know what to do. Please help.


Answers


bella
1585 days ago
Did you have children with her? I'm sorry you're having difficulty with accepting it's over. I'm going to give you some advice - a partner should never be your entire world and life. How were you during marriage and why do you think it failed?

All I can say is, you really have no choice but to accept it over. She's not the only person in the world for you. You can't let your life fall apart because they don't want to be with you. Life goes on and you have to be strong.



KIMSCRAZEE
1585 days ago
I'M SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. SOUNDS LIKE YOU ARE IN SUCH A DEPRESSION YOU ARE RUINING OTHER ASPECTS OF YOUR LIFE...YOU NEED TO SEEK A COUNSELOR AND MAYBE GET ON A LIGHT DOSAGE OF AN ANTI DEPRESSANT JUST UNTIL YOU CAN HANDLE THIS A BIT BETTER.

PRAYER CAN'T HURT EITHER!

BUT IT SOUNDS LIKE IT IS HER LOSS - YOU LOVE HER DEEPLY AND SHE DOESN'T WANT THAT - SHE IS LOSING OUT ON A LOT. SHE WILL SEE IT SOMEDAY.

JUST TAKE CARE OF YOU AND THEN SOMEONE WILL COME ALONG THAT YOU CAN SHARE LIFE WITH!