Right after Christmas in 2008 my wife, now exwife, told me she was through. I did everything I could to save our marriage because I love her so much. I know I pushed to hard and we are divorced now. No matter what I do, I cannot give up on us and our marriage. All I can see is her face not matter what I am doing or whether I am around people or not. I have tried dating, but I still just think about my ex. I have been to counseling and have been through Landmark education and nothing works for me to let her go or more importantly to get her back. She is my entire world and my life. I know I have pressured her so much that she won't even talk to me. I am completely at a loss of what to do about us and myself. I have lost my job because of this and am unable to get another one. I know I cannot a live in which all that I see is her and think about is her. I am so tired of crying all the time. Everyone says that each day gets easier, but the days get harder and harder for me. I don't know what to do. Please help.
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