My boyfriend (ex) and I broke up when we took our relationship from online to offline. Come to find out that his dad bashed our relationship to him right before he saw me, and it caused him to act odd. He said that it scared him, and that he doesn't think that we would work out. The problem, however, is that we have great personalities that mesh well, and the last night I was there was perfect. We cuddled, he smiled, he still tells me he loves me, that he wants to hold me, but says we can't work in real life. The thing is, the last day that I was there proved that we could work in real life if his dad didn't influence the trip to go bad. How do I get him to realize that we can work, an we could have worked, if he wouldn't have let his dad influence the trip? I really don't want to lose him when I know in my heart that him and I could work for a very, very long time.


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Written by kittenkirk 322 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

How old are you? That may play a factor why his dad doesn't approve of the relationship. His dad may still have influence over his decisions? If your bf was mature enough he could make up his own mind. Is this really the kind of man you want to be with? There may be more to what you've written about. But you need to ask herself some honest questions.

Written by Clyde 319 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

I agree with Kitten. It could be a lot to do with your age. You do have a lot of questions to ask yourself too.

Best,

Clyde


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