This older guy who I thought was my friend wanted more,I didn't.I went out with my now ex and i dumped him a year ago.The thing is that now these two guys who actually hate each other have teamed up against me and the older guy is now living with my ex boyfriend.Between the two of them they have spread that many lies and rumours about me I just wonder what is next?
Any help would be appreciated.
Written by bellacutie 23 days ago
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Have you ever heard the saying 'my enemies enemy is my friend'? That's really sad they have nothing better to do with their time! I think you should do your best to ignore them - also block them from things like facebook, emails etc. In serious cases people can file defamation of character lawsuits - but I don't think you want to go that far. I would document anything they say - such as emails, texts as proof, in case this escalates(I don't think it will).
Hopefully your friends know who you truly are. If they bother you more where you feel unsafe, you can file a restraining order. Just ignore them for now. Good luck
Written by Clyde 20 days ago
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Ignore them as much as possible, and keep contact to a super minimum.
Try your best to live your life without them being in it.
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Have you ever heard the saying 'my enemies enemy is my friend'? That's really sad they have nothing better to do with their time! I think you should do your best to ignore them - also block them from things like facebook, emails etc. In serious cases people can file defamation of character lawsuits - but I don't think you want to go that far. I would document anything they say - such as emails, texts as proof, in case this escalates(I don't think it will).
Hopefully your friends know who you truly are. If they bother you more where you feel unsafe, you can file a restraining order. Just ignore them for now. Good luck
Ignore them as much as possible, and keep contact to a super minimum.
Try your best to live your life without them being in it.
Best,
Clyde