Avatar Posted by baddyellabone 28 days ago (Question)
so me and my boyfriend been togather for 3 1/2 years and, during the first year he got a job. it was this girl at his job that i kinda figured liked him but i just didnt want to feel insecure to say anything.so one night he left and left his phone to my house on the charger, so it ringed so my sister answered b cuz i was busy and my sister told me her and the girl was fussing on the phone so i went to get the phone and when i looked at it she left a voicemail and it said (who was that girl that picked-up the phone? we gon cut her but ne ways call bk) so my boyfriend get there and i tell him about it and he says that he was suppose to go meet them to the club and that he was going out and that he didnt know why she said that and then she called while we was talking about it and i go to answer the phone and he snatched the phone out of my hand so i would not nswer it so i just wanted to know why she didnt know me did he tell her about me??? then it was another occasion when she sent him a text saying that ,i know you got girlfriend but i really like you and so on and i looked to see did he text her bk but it didnt show so i dont know what happended with that but it been 3 years now and they call theyself friends and when i go to his job and both of them working togather i mostly always see them talking and laughing with eachother now she went to collage and shes no longer working there and we was just sitting home quiet just watching t.v and he says my friend done went to collage, like i care i just want to know does he got or had feelings for her?? cuz he would throw me to the side just to go clubbing with her and her friends and they suppose to be just his work buddies and why all his work buddies had to be females??


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Written by bellacutie 28 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

I think it's fine for a man to have friends who are women -but that text from the girl at work was definately inappropriate. Unfortunately it's hard for some men to discourage a woman who's going after them - after all it feels good to be pursued. It's seems like she didn't know about you. It seems like you don't trust him. You have to figure out can you calmly settle this or should you move on. Best of luck, Bella

Written by Clyde 28 days ago Rating: 0 | Rate Answer: + -

It is no problem for a guy to have friends who are girls, and vice versa. However; it does sound like there is more to this then what you know of (at least one side of it, anyways), and you really need to talk to him about this.

If you feel it cannot be changed, I would move on from this as well, and not allow this to happen.

Best,

Clyde


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