recently i have given dating a second chance now remind you i am young only 17 but any way i meet this lovely girl on line she is amazing everything i ever dreamed of and i got lucky everything is working out for us i am going to be moving up by her very soon i want to know what most people think of this type of relationship
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Hi crazybones! I'm glad you are in a good relationship, but hope neither of you commit to just dating each other due to your age. It might not seem to matter now, but later on one of you will wonder what they may have missed by committing so early in life.
Have you moved near to her yet? How are things working out?
Good wishes
drjean
hey clyde yeah we are always talking and such writing sendin picture ans such through the mail and she is so far the most amazing girl i ever been with in my whole life
yes all this is very true i am not to worried about her lying we are deeply in love we talk on the phone every day and night i even had chance to speak with parents and they really like me now i am moving up there becuz i meet her and need a fresh start and think this is a perfect oppurtunity for me she is 16 will be 17 in october which is perfect we pretty much like all the same things
Crazybones, sometimes these do work out okay. Since you are moving up by her anyway, you'll soon find out how honest she has been about herself, and she you! Are you moving because of meeting her, or were you going to anyway and happen to meet her?
You didn't mention her age. I sure hope she is also 17! Having a girl friend who is the same age means a great deal when the crunch times come (parental issues, graduation, job hunting, rock/song/band group likings, etc.)
I wish you well.
drjean
Hi Crazybones...
Lots of times, the issues with computer relationships/long distance relationships is that it is hard to gauge how truthfully serious the person is, or even how real the other person is...sometimes they can be completely different than what you expect.
However, in another vein, they are great for friendship, companionship online for sure. Have you two talked to each other over the phone or by letter, etc?
Best,
Clyde