I have a girlfriend since 21-02 this year. We're both 16 and nearly 17. This is the first time that i have one and i really love her. But thats also the problem, my body loves her too, a little too much...
We went swimming at the third day we had something, and i had a hard time trying to hide it and it worked a little. But when i'm at her home and were on her bed (were not having sex or anything, yet) we get really close, and no matter what i try i cant get it away. And when she wants to lie on me i have to turn a bit so she won't find out. And i already know that she knows but she doesn't say anything. But i do mind it...
Nothing works to prevent it or get rid of it, i tried to wair tight (and sometimes more than 1) underpants, doesn't work. I tried thinking about sick and dead things, doesn't work. But i am not that far off to try taping it. Is there any way i can supress it?
And no bullshit about its normal about my age please i know but its the problem NOW, not in a couple of years.
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