They have been divorced 9yrs, she's remarried. Children are grown. We used to talk what was to be romantic walks and he would talk about her. I told him they way it made me feel. He continued one day until it brought me to tears.
Last night after making love and relaxing in the living room he told me he wondered if her marriage was happy. This was the first night we had had alone in weeks. I llistened and then asked why would he bring her up tonight oof all nights? He became angry with me. Claims he is not oobsessed. She left him and his 2 boys. Is he still in llove with her?
Written by Clyde 377 days ago
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Sounds like he has a lot of baggage from that relationship.
It could definitely be that he is still "hooked" in that relationship in his heart. You should let him know that it makes you feel horrible and would appreciate him talking to a professional or someone else about it, instead of making you feel like crap.
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Sounds like he has a lot of baggage from that relationship.
It could definitely be that he is still "hooked" in that relationship in his heart. You should let him know that it makes you feel horrible and would appreciate him talking to a professional or someone else about it, instead of making you feel like crap.
Hope this helps.
Best,
Clyde